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My wife, Anna, and myself had been active swingers for many years and

Published Friday, 21st Aug 04:48 BST

My wife, Anna, and myself had been active swingers for many years and just adore the swinging lifestyle.


I got my laptop for my birthday and on it I liked to look at Internet

Published Friday, 21st Aug 00:00 BST

I got my laptop for my birthday and on it I liked to look at Internet dating sites. I found one of the Internet dating sites was rather expensive to join but I was delighted at the profiles I saw on it. Internet dating went international when I came across a gorgeous looking guy in South Africa. He looked just like my idol: Tom Cruise. I was so disappointed that he lived so far away. I lived in London in England and he lived in Cape Town in South Africa.


I watched her walk down the isle with my best friend beside her. She l

Published Thursday, 20th Aug 21:05 BST

I watched her walk down the isle with my best friend beside her. She looked so beautiful dressed in white. She looked at me as I looked at her. I forced a smile and mouthed " congratulations ". The candle light shun on her face as she made a surprised face, then she looked down the isle, with a smile on her face. She said her prayers then he gave her a simple kiss. It hurt me inside, to know that nothing would be the same as it was before. Why couldn't I take her hand when I had the chance ? With each moment that passed, I thought she was going to stay by my side forever. I was obviously wrong. Each day I would have to hide my feelings from her from now on. I wouldn't be able to bare it. Why did I fall in love with her ?We met at a dating service but decided we would end it as friends, seeing as so many people disapproved of our relationship. But to be honest, the dating service was the best thing that had ever happened in my life. Without the dating service I would have never met her. A good friend and a person I fell in love with. But now I really wish I'd never seen that dating service, since she just married my best friend.I went home. Tears streamed down my face. I went to a photo album that I kept of her and me. I just wanted those memories to last. I touched each photo pretending it was her. Tears started to wreck the books so I threw it aside. Maybe if I could have reached out to you, you would have still been here. Maybe if I spoke my heart then you wouldn't be marrying him. But now another man is holding you, kissing you, and touching you. And he's not me.I fell asleep with an mp3 in my hand. Putting on all the songs about letting go. I then drifted into a deep sleep where I began dreaming about before you married him. How I was always there by your side and how I was always near you, where ever we went out. It turned into a nightmare as I remembered you marrying him. How happy you looked and how the guy beside you wasn't me. He was my best friend. As I dreamed I hoped that I'd never wake up so I wouldn't have to face the cruel reality god has forced onto me.


After being by myself for such a long time I finally decided to try ou

Published Wednesday, 19th Aug 05:10 BST

After being by myself for such a long time I finally decided to try out some dating websites. I have been alone for a while but eventually I got tired and pretty sad about seeing all my friends getting attached and I was just left alone, the famous third wheel but that was all going to change now, I was finally going to try a few dating websites and find my very first love. It was a big deal and I would not enter into this decision lightly it needed thoughts and preparation such as how much I actually wanted to share with people with my online profile, did I need to keep things private or should I share as much as possible? At least then I would know if the people I was talking to would really like me for being myself and not the false persona which I would end up creating for myself if I decided against been honest. I did not want to be that person so when I finally found the dating websites which I wanted to join I filled out my profile as honest as possible and hoped for the same responses from some good genuine people out there.


I love dating women, but being tied down was a different story. I mean

Published Monday, 17th Aug 07:47 BST

I love dating women, but being tied down was a different story. I mean, what's the point of having one girl in your life when there are a billion of hot fish in the sea ? Each girl I dated never lasted over a week or two. The idea of not being " single " was too much to bear. And there are too many flavors of women. That's the way I use to go about dating women. That's the way I thought, until I met " her ".I went to a party and saw her. An angel named Ashley. Immediately I knew she was the one. The way she walked, talked, and smiled. I loved everything about her. Her light brown eyes, long brown hair, and perfectly shaped face. I knew that she was going to be more then a " one time fling ". As I approached her she gave me this glare. I'm not an unattractive person so she obviously knew about my past relationships. She was avoiding eye contact and was trying to ignore everything I did. I know the best techniques for dating women, but she wasn't falling for any of them. A challenge was always great but it just got plain irritating so I decided to use my " final move ". I grabbed her and pulled her close to me. My heart beat faster cause I could feel her breath on my face. The burning passion inside urged me to gently kiss her on the lips but as I was going in for it, she harshly rejected me with a slap on the face. I went too far and deserved it. Stunned and feeling quite embarrassed, I stared at the floor and apologized to her, telling her that I've never felt this way about any woman before and that it shocked me even to do such a thing as that. She gave me this angelic smile while pushing my chin up so that our eyes were staring at each other. Her eyes pierced through my body and into the depths of my soul, trying to figure out if I was lying or not. After that she kissed me. A kiss so passionate, it left me breathless.I wish time would stop moving, just for us. Later after a make out session between the two of us, we left the party, hand in hand.To be honest, I was never happy when I was dating women just for the fun of it. When I met Ashley, my whole world went from black and white different colors. We're still together, happy as can be. But sometimes I wonder how my life would be without her.


"Exes Dating Exes Ever heard some weird dating stories, well how about

Published Monday, 17th Aug 07:15 BST

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After being married for 7 years my husband has become a bit bored and

Published Monday, 17th Aug 05:58 BST

After being married for 7 years my husband has become a bit bored and recently suggested we go out with some of his friends who I know enjoy swinging. I know they are because one of the wife’s in the group is a good friend of mine and she confided in me that in order for her husband not to have a fling with someone else she agreed to try swinging with him. After she did it she never told me anything else, she never confirmed or denied but I have seen them out in town with several other couples. I also don't want my husband to havea fling with another woman but I don't think I am ready to open our marriage up to swinging.


Dating women can be a very tricky subject. They want to cuddle, and ta

Published Saturday, 15th Aug 04:51 BST

Dating women can be a very tricky subject. They want to cuddle, and talk about how they feel, and assume that there heart guides their feelings rather than their brains. I am not gay, I just feel like dating women can be a very stressful situation!


Alice was a former lesbian, when she decided to try and start dating m

Published Friday, 14th Aug 06:54 BST

Alice was a former lesbian, when she decided to try and start dating men. While she tried dating men in the past, she experienced some very abusive relationships. That is why she referred to dating women. But, Alicedesperatelywanted to become a mother and have a family someday.


Before I met my current partner, a friend of mine suggested we go spee

Published Thursday, 13th Aug 22:09 BST

Before I met my current partner, a friend of mine suggested we go speed dating. At first I wasn't very keen on the idea, but when the day finally came I was really excited. It is quite amazing how much you can learn about someone in just a few minutes.


Kevin was a big bear of a guy. Sweet, gentle and, by all accounts from

Published Thursday, 6th Aug 01:57 BST

Kevin was a big bear of a guy. Sweet, gentle and, by all accounts from his female friends, a really lovable fellow. Unexpected for a guy of his size, Kevin was also extremely shy and rather introverted. He just wasn't a confident person and this translated to going home to an empty bedroom every night. Kevin, in spite of having pleasant looks, a nice wardrobe and a well-tended appearance, really didn't date much. He had a wealth of friends but that's all the women seemed to want from him. Friendship. So that's what he gave and they knew they could count on him for anything and everything.


Many of us must have seen that advertisement just on the side of any w

Published Tuesday, 4th Aug 02:53 BST

Many of us must have seen that advertisement just on the side of any web page. It is that cute advertisement featuring an attractive boy or a girl smiling at you. You feel jubilant and your heart beats faster. You feel so attracted and drawn to the advertisement that you leave your pending work and click on that link first. Yes, you have guessed it right! It is the advertisement of online dating.


No one can ever accuse me of being careful when it comes to dating, I'

Published Monday, 3rd Aug 23:31 BST

No one can ever accuse me of being careful when it comes to dating, I'm adventurous and some can even say I'm reckless. I'm not looking for commitment, I'm just out to have fun. I'm willing to try anything at least once. And with the right guy, I'll have sex the first night. It was just who I am.


A famous pop idol once said in a magazine article that she would never

Published Saturday, 1st Aug 23:52 BST

A famous pop idol once said in a magazine article that she would never consider online dating and that she had never had a problem finding a boyfriend. That was easy for her as she was drop dead gorgeous!


Have any of you ever had a passion for something? Well, I have and as

Published Friday, 31st Jul 15:44 BST

Have any of you ever had a passion for something? Well, I have and as old as I am, I still have the same passion for this. Yeah, I know, you thought I was going to say sex, right! Well, guess what! You are all wrong. My passion is for horses, and really doubt if I will ever grow out of it.


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